So I took Laufey out for an evening stroll a couple of days ago and some kids (that I dislike I might add) ask if they can stroke him. I say no (a. because I don’t like them and b. because we’re trying to get off our rubbish filled street and away from all the stuff he might eat) and one of them strokes him away! Then she had the audacity to look affronted when I told her to stop. I know these kids. I know their parents. They live down my street. Hell I talk to her mum all the time, her brother is friends with my brother. Yet she completely ignored the fact I had said no like it didn’t matter that time because I have said yes in the past! It’s really no wonder that kids get attacked by dogs when some of them don’t ask at all and others ignore you when they do ask! Drives me insane. I might also add that Laufey was very good, he doesn’t mind kids at all and on this occasion he ignored them and kept walking
On a similar note of testing my ability to not turn into a fiery ball of rage, why is it when you’re walking along and you have to pass another dog, despite you clearly saying “no” and “leave it” and “let’s go” when Laufey is desperate to go say hi (and be very rude about it and it is not a polite thing to do to every dog we spot in the street) WHY for the love of god, does the other owner stop EVERY GOD DAMN TIME until I’ve past and let their dog get closer?!? Whenever I see a dog coming towards us I move as out of the way as possible and keep him close to me but people are oblivious and the only ones who do notice are owners of SBT who then insist on telling me their dog is friendly and wouldn’t hurt a fly! I get it, staffies are misunderstood but my actions have nothing to do with your breed and everything to do with my dog’s lack of polite social skills so please, for the love of god, stop telling me they’re friendly because I know this. I love staffies and would have on in a heartbeat if we had space for a larger dog.
And seriously, stop cooing over my damn puppy! Yes she’s adorable, yes she’s quite an uncommon breed in this area but she is tiny and whilst she is fearless I do not want you to hound her and scare her and you definitely won’t pay her the same attention when she’s grown up (people never do!!) so stop because you are just teaching her bad habits you will be disgusted by in an adult dog!